According to Deepa, “there’s a lot of fear in them, fear and pride. So, the fear is if their family story is being shared, and if everyone comes to know about it, there’s a lot of shame. And with that shame, they find that they will not be able to face the community. And for them, community is very important, but they can only face a community with pride […] they shouldn’t face a community with a problem, especially as a woman […] They say that all these [negative] narratives [about foreign spouses of Singaporeans] can also spread to their home countries […] it will affect their own family back there, in terms of shame […] especially those with younger sisters (as it might affect their marriage prospects).”